After Much Thought

Life is indeed full of surprises. I personally think that without surprises, life would be boring and predictable. With that being said, there is no doubt that hope is the greatest weapon man could ever hope for. Hope in all its glory does not give guarantee. It gives man the will to move on, to hold on, to endure, to live, to survive and most of all to never give up.

It is my personal opinion that hope or wishful thinking can make man unpredictable. For even the dumbest of them would surprise you with the little ounce of hope he clings on too. The extra distance that he is able to cover, the pain he is able to endure, the loneliness and sadness he can withstand is all a miracle just with a little hope at his side.

Men's hope should be feared. Its really amazing how something without shape and size can make the biggest difference in the future. It has always been questioned why would the person do this, why would the person do that, why would he sacrifice and etc. And the answer is very simple.

" Hope"

It brings about courage and determination in the darkest hour.

Stubbornness and strength in difficult times.

Honor with principles when all others corrupt.

Right and wrong when blind.

Good and evil when suppressed.

It leads men to do even the most evil of things. That's why friends and families are needed to advice and give a different kind of hope to the person. In the hope that he doesn't run astray or do anything stupid.

Sometimes because he isn't knowledgeable or was blinded by emotion.

Sometimes its caused by his inability to convey his emotions to the other.

Or maybe its because he just worries too much. Not about himself but about the other.

And when you worry to much, you tend to act on the basis that you think its the best for both. But soon realize that you don't have that right to choose what's best as the other also has a say in this. It leads towards selfishness and regret

It is for the best that next time before I act, I should put myself in the others shoes first to assure that the message gets across. Misunderstandings are such a pain in the ass.

And recently it has:-

ADDED to my misery,

DIVIDE my attention,

SUBTRACT from my pleasure and

MULTIPLY like crazy.

It is about time I stopped this madness and clear the air.

And I hope I finally succeed in doing so. But I need your help as well to keep this hope that I am holding on.

To ensure that my grasp does not waver.

To ensure that it doesn't fall.

To ensure that the 'hope' I hold on to does not change one single bit.

That the strength that I put into it never reduce but increase instead.

All that I hope for is that we built this hope together.

And put the past behind us.

Can it be done? I hope it can.

 

"Let the bud become a flower before plucking it"